In English in order to express a preference for something we can use I´d rather (=I would rather):

Subject + would rather + subject + past tense

I´d rather you didn´t tell my parents I am having a party on Saturday.

I´d rather we went to Cádiz, but my mom wants to go to Mallorca.

You can also express a preference for something using I´d prefer (I would prefer):

Subject + would prefer + object + to + infinitive

I´d prefer you not to tell my parents I am having a party on Saturday

I´d prefer us to go to Cádiz, but my mom wants to go to Mallorca.

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